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As I sit at my desk working, my little sons drift in and out of the room
As I sit at my desk working, my little sons drift in and out of the room. They’ll slip in, settle beside me for a few minutes, nibbling on a cracker or a piece ...
If you’re joining a church in your 30s or 40s, whether to stabilize your life...
If you’re joining a church in your 30s or 40s, whether to stabilize your life or to seek a marriage partner, there are a few key considerations to bear in mind....
Introduction: The Marriage Market Within the Church Many people, especially...
Many people, especially those in their 30s, are turning to churches to find stable, moral, and cooperative partners for marriage. This is a good thing. Even if ...
My son came to me and said, “I deleted my video games
My son came to me and said, “I deleted my video games.” I asked why. He said, “I’m sick of them. They feel like a waste of time.” So I asked, “Describe that fe...
One of the strangest features of modern feminism is how some women live...
One of the strangest features of modern feminism is how some women live traditional lives, submitting to their husbands, raising children, building homes, but s...
"I can't believe I'm reading this in 2025
"I can't believe I'm reading this in 2025. It is an insult to all women. We don't need to be led by anyone and being submissive or agreeing with something out o...
"I’m so done with coaching
"I’m so done with coaching. So done with self-improvement, with habit stacking, morning routines, supplements, gratitude journals, optimization culture. I’m tir...
Provide, P̶r̶o̶t̶e̶c̶t̶, P̶r̶e̶s̶i̶d̶e̶ When a father goes out with his...
Provide, P̶r̶o̶t̶e̶c̶t̶, P̶r̶e̶s̶i̶d̶e̶ When a father goes out with his children, it is his responsibility to remain 100% alert to his surroundings. All of the...
You’ve seen him before: the strong, competent man who commands the room, leads...
You’ve seen him before: the strong, competent man who commands the room, leads teams, earns the respect of men. He’s dominant without being domineering, respect...
Most people have a need to complicate things
Most people have a need to complicate things. If they are an expert, it makes them more needed. If its complicated then it means you need more therapy, more coa...
The weak will always suffer
The weak will always suffer. Their days are filled with gnawing fear, their nights with restless sleep. They are prey for every petty tyrant, toy for every whim...
Once, long before laws and courts and constitutions, there was only the sun...
Once, long before laws and courts and constitutions, there was only the sun, the earth, the water, the wind, the animals, and us. But not as we are now, in some...
That father was not paying enough attention to his surroundings
That father was not paying enough attention to his surroundings. He had poor situational awareness to let the woman walk up on him in the first place. Second, ...
What if you bought a piece of land, built a modest home for yourself, and added...
What if you bought a piece of land, built a modest home for yourself, and added a small honeymoon cabin? When your children married, the new couple could live ...
Can our current system be fixed from within?
We live in an era of diminishing time, resources, and competent actors capable of intervening in the decline of Western institutions. Every moment spent on inef...
Debunking Overrated Public Intellectuals Want to know if your favorite public...
Debunking Overrated Public Intellectuals Want to know if your favorite public intellectual is a true innovator or just a teacher in disguise? I've crafted a ra...
When boys are small, a father’s focus is on giving them love, and their focus...
When boys are small, a father’s focus is on giving them love, and their focus is on trying to be lovable and win that love. But around age twelve, there needs ...
Always Get A Budget First Years ago I used to negotiate mid-sized IT software...
Always Get A Budget First Years ago I used to negotiate mid-sized IT software projects, and we had a system that produced better projects and happier clients. ...
Imagine waking up to a home that’s already on your side, no sock hunts, no...
Imagine waking up to a home that’s already on your side, no sock hunts, no sink‑stare, no “later.” Everything organized, everything in its place. Beautiful, fun...
Imagine waking up to a home that’s already on your side, no sock hunts, no...
Imagine waking up to a home that’s already on your side, no sock hunts, no sink‑stare, no “later.” Everything organized, everything in its place. Beautiful, fun...