Coaching That Works
A structured, systematic process that identifies what is holding you back, dismantles it, and builds what ought to be there instead. This is how adults are made. Most clients see measurable growth within twelve sessions.
Book a Free Discovery CallHow It Works
Discovery Call
A free thirty-minute conversation. You tell me where you are and what you are dealing with. I tell you honestly whether coaching is the right fit, and what I believe we can accomplish together. The only purpose is clarity.
Assessment & Roadmap
If we decide to work together, I assess where you stand across the five foundational areas: emotional mastery, purpose, identity, moral compass, and mind map. From that assessment, I build a plan specific to you and your circumstances.
Structured Sessions
Weekly or biweekly sessions working through the five techniques: cheap dopamine detox, introspection, deprogramming, reprogramming, and conversion. Each session has clear objectives and homework. You will feel the progress.
Ongoing Growth
Most clients work with me for three to six months. Some continue longer as they address deeper patterns or enter new life stages. The goal is always to build your own capacity, until you no longer need me.
Who I Work With
For Men
Married fathers and single men prepared to do the work of growing up: leading well, building something that lasts.
For Women
Married mothers and single women who want honest guidance toward maturity, agency, and a life that is genuinely their own.
For Families
Couples and parents building a household that functions: structured roles, honest communication, shared purpose.
A Systematic Path to Maturity
My coaching is a structured methodology built on five foundational modules and five core techniques. Each one addresses a specific dimension of maturity that most adults were never taught.
Five Foundational Modules
Emotional Mastery
The capacity to identify, process, and govern your emotions. Most adults were never taught this. It is the foundation of everything else.
Purpose
Clarity about what you are here to do, and the discipline to align your daily conduct with that answer.
Identity
A settled sense of who you are that holds under pressure and does not require the approval of others.
Moral Compass
An ethical framework rooted in natural law. When the pressure rises, this is what keeps your decisions honest.
Mind Map
The mental patterns that drive your conduct. You cannot change what you cannot see. This module makes the invisible visible.
Five Core Techniques
Cheap Dopamine Detox
Systematic removal of the habits and substances that numb your capacity to feel, think, and act with intention.
Introspection
The practice of looking at yourself honestly, without flinching. Most people have never done this with any rigor.
Deprogramming
False beliefs and coping mechanisms were installed in childhood. They served you then. They sabotage you now. This technique removes them.
Reprogramming
Once the old patterns are dismantled, new ones must be built in their place. Deliberate ones. Ones that serve the adult you intend to be.
Conversion
Knowledge becomes conduct. Maturity becomes your default, not your effort. This is where the work becomes permanent.
What Clients Say
"I'm finally the man I always wanted to be."
Joshua G.
"My father had not taught me how to be an adult man and had not initiated me into the world of men. Noah's coaching gave me the structure and guidance I never received."
Client
"My old coping strategies worked when I was a kid, but now that I am an adult, they are destroying me. Through coaching, I learned to replace them with something that actually works."
Client
"I know what I need to do to fix my life, but every time I try, I get distracted or too anxious. Noah helped me break through the pattern."
Client
Business professional
"The problem-solving skills that work in my career are not working in my personal life, and that is very frustrating. Coaching helped me see the difference."
Client
"The structure and accountability changed everything. I finally have a clear path forward."
Client
"I've been hired with a very good package deal. It's a step in the right direction and an awesome opportunity for myself. I think it all started with you a year ago. There is much more work to do but this is a reward for the changes that have occurred within my life. It would not have been possible without your guidance."
Coaching Client
"In January I had a coaching session with Noah, and found it amazingly helpful. Noah gave me some homework, and I began working at it faithfully. The practice has done wonders for me. It's my first week at my new remote job, at a small, growing company, working for more pay and a team that respects the value I bring. A year ago I was not feeling proud of myself in general, but right now, I am. Thank you Noah."
Coaching Client
"Over the last couple of months my mental and emotional state has improved. I am able to set priorities, make actionable plans and respond to emotional reactions with fair rationality. I despair less often and less severely. My mental hygiene is improved. My general mood is brighter. I hate less and love more. Discomfort is enjoyable. Beauty in nature is more noticeable and easier to appreciate. All these are only part of the benefits I've noticed so far and I'm only half way through the course."
Agency Course Client
"A lot has been going on in my life in the past 3 months. I am living by myself for the first time, I got a new job, and today I asked a girl I really like to be my girlfriend and she said yes."
Coaching Client
"With a little help from Noah J Revoy, I got the commitment I want from a guy I really like!"
R.D.
"Thanks so much, Noah. You've already helped more than the 2 therapists I've spoken to in the past."
S.M.
"As an outlier, I found myself failing in multiple areas, despite high intelligence, self knowledge, and other traits that generally predispose one for success. Noah was able to quickly map my personality and temperament as well as my relationship dynamics and identify reasons why I was failing to achieve the outcomes I desired."
Female Client
"It is hard to summarize a year, but this has been really life-changing. I have traveled a lot and lived in the biggest cities in North America, and I have probably only met a handful of people that I really feel have a special, divine purpose. I believe that about you. What you are doing is generational changing. It has been amazing."
S.H.
"One of the things I wanted to say today was thank you. This week we had two massive breakthroughs in how we talk, how I am helping her regulate her emotions, and the pregnancy has been so much better. So much better."
T.S.
"I have massively changed. I am starting to love myself. I did some meditation a few months ago for the first time in years, and I was crying because I realized I had been like a dictator to myself. I could not relax. I do not love myself fully yet. I am getting there. I am a lot better."
T.S.
"Sometimes I figure something out in my marriage and I feel like it is so profound, like it changed my life. And nobody else gets it. You know how hard I had to fight to get this knowledge? Nobody is teaching this."
T.B.
"I appreciate your time over the last eight hours spread over a year. I am feeling really good about where I am going. I have learned a lot. How can I support what you are doing, personally, professionally, anything I can do to boost you?"
T.B.
"I love the program. I find these sessions to be super helpful."
P.B.
"She has the power to fix it, not just to complain about it. That is huge. And that is something that you taught me. Now I am trying to teach her as well."
P.B.
"First and foremost, I respect and admire you a lot. I followed you for a while, and I always have a bias towards working with like-minded men."
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Coaching Client, fellow coach
"I get a ton of value from this, because I know this is the thing that is plaguing everything, and I know that if I fix this, it will transform my life in so many ways. I am very grateful for this and for how you are articulating yourself. I am learning a lot."
S.
Coaching Client, fellow coach
"I want to keep working with you."
S.
Coaching Client, fellow coach
"I would love to be able to offer your course to my clients, because I work with similar guys to you. Ambitious men. We just help them with different things."
S.
Coaching Client, fellow coach
"My job, this house, my career, my physical health. I think my mental health. I think I am happier than I have ever been in my life. What you say about increasing happiness is true."
N.L.
"You are going to make me cry. Thank you for saying that."
R.R.
"This is really helpful. Just to hear it from a father figure with a deeper voice."
R.R.
"I cannot believe there is this whole side of my family and my inheritance and these talents that have been given to me, and it has just been completely unexpressed. Now I have to go try to do this, because that is what will bring meaning to who I am and my life."
R.R.
"When these intrusive thoughts arrive, I am diligently, though not perfectly, simply not engaging with them. And that has actually lowered my anxiety for the first time in months. That is probably the first biggest breakthrough I have actually had in this pattern."
D.A.
"You are the only closest thing to a mentor I have, because almost no one has the results nowadays. And if they do, they are not a coach and they are not a mentor."
E.W.
"No matter how expensive it sounds, if it gets your mind in the right place, it is always worth it. Any amount of money is worth it. Pays itself off in one month or less."
W.H.
"Looking back, I wish I would have started a family twenty years ago. Now I am doing it at forty-two. But this guidance is needed, man. This guidance is needed."
M.R.
"I think you helped me frame the significance thing. It is not just an ego thing. I find it really becomes worthwhile when I can give that out to the people that I love. It is really helpful. I do not think I really thought of it this way."
R.C.
"I am now settling into the calling of my life. What you give me is that support, not only in your words, but also just to reflect that to me. You are just there. It is all fine. Now I can feel it."
L.D.
Female client
"This is so interesting, because I never thought that I could make a career just doing the same thing I did when I was fifteen. It is the same thing."
E.S.
"I do not know what you taught me exactly. This is like magic."
Former Client
"Every time I get stressed, I imagine what you would say, and I just go through that process again. And I feel better. I did not feel anxious anymore."
Former Client
"I finally got married. Now I have a kid. You tell me things and I change my life, but it feels like I am the one doing it."
Former Client
"My husband has been working with you for six months. He has changed so much for the better and become so much more mature. Everyone has noticed: his family, his kids, me, his employer. I need to improve too. What can you do to help me?"
Client's Wife
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