🗣️📣Avoid hardening your woman Facing suffering, hardship, tests, trials...

�️📣Avoid hardening your woman

Facing suffering, hardship, tests, trials, violence, and struggles makes us men more masculine and tough.

We grow up and get better by doing hard things.

Women are not like us. They are not meant to face the harshness of the world.

They mature by carefully guarding their value from damage. Protecting the fragile nature of femininity.

Women have three times the touch sensors in their thinner, softer skin. Their bones are more fragile, they have less muscle mass, and their more sensitive CNS can’t take the same stimulation as ours. They need more sleep than we do. Estrogen causes emotional rollercoasters.

Women are the “weaker vessel.”

Almost every young woman is feminine. It’s in their nature. But a harsh life, fending off attention from low-value men, battling with men in the workplace, or facing the same things that make a man better will beat that lovely softness out of her.

We are not the same.

Masculine men want a sweet, soft, feminine woman. But you can’t have that if you assign her a role in the family that overburdens her and causes her to be in her masculine for hours a day, leaving her exhausted.

Women are capable of being very tough, but the cost is giving up their femininity.

It’s not fair. Your woman needs better treatment than you do. Just as your children need even better treatment than she does. If that bothers you, marriage, women, and children are not for you.

None of this is about providing her with luxury. Women don’t need luxury to be feminine. You don’t need to spend large amounts of money to care for her. Money can help, and outsourcing support for your wife is a viable solution. I hired a full-time maid for my wife.

Giving her good treatment is about how you interact with her. Are you a source of leadership, protection, comfort, strength, and support for your wife? Do you help her when she is overwhelmed? That’s the way to care for a woman.

If you are a woman reading this, please pay attention to the men you date and their attitudes about taking care of their women. If you need help evaluating a man, DM me with the details, and I will give you expert advice.