Mothers want their sons to grow up to be mature, masculine men

Mothers want their sons to grow up to be mature, masculine men. Useful men.

But they also want to keep them obedient. Again, because men are useful.

This is why they tend to encourage their sons to grow up while also holding them back, trying to keep them childlike, and installing mental controls in them.

From 0 to 7 (or maximally 10), most mothers keep this balance between control and growth pretty well, avoiding the extremes.

Then their sons start to become young men, which poses a challenge to her authority. All boys know they can’t become men if they are tied to their mother’s skirt. So they begin to assert their own authority as developing men.

If the mother is allowed to continue as the primary influence over the boy past this age of reason, she will not be able to control his growing masculine energy. She cannot physically contain him as a father could, so she will spiritually emasculate him to keep him soft, pliable, and beholden to her needs.

This emasculation comes in the form of control programs that she embeds in her son’s mind. These programs are so powerful that they persist into adulthood and can be accessed by any woman who knows the man well enough, especially girlfriends, wives, and daughters.

Historically, the father would rescue his son before this age to prevent him from being emasculated. The boy would be taken away from his mother to live with his male relatives and learn the ways of men.

Fathers today must do something similar. Your young sons need to shift from relying on their mother to following their father into manhood. You need to become the main parent, spending enough time to teach your sons maturity. This, however, requires that you are a mature and fully developed man, that you know what a man is, and that you know how to convert a boy into a man.